Stop Stalling, Start Creating

If you need to be writing a book and instead write a blog post, you are stalling. If want to live your dream and spend your day sending out resumes, you're stalling. If you are called to lead and wait to make a decision, you are stalling

The other week, I heard a great piece of advice on a podcast in which Brian Clark asked Seth Godin how he writes, and Seth responded in typical Zen-like fashion:

We have this idea that if we ate the same breakfast cereal that Stephen King ate, we'd be able to write like him. It isn't true.

What does uber-blogger and best-selling author Mr. Godin call our obsession with celebrities' and famous authors' creative practices? Stalling.

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It made me think of all the areas in my life that I am stalling to do the really hard, important work of creating.

The stall list

• If you need to be writing a book and instead write a blog post, you are stalling.

• If want to live your dream and spend your day sending out resumes, you're stalling.

• If you are called to lead and wait to make a decision, you are stalling.

• If you obsess over your blog stats, you're stalling.

• If you call a meeting only to schedule another meeting, you are stalling (and killing the productivity of your entire team).

• If you spend two hours having coffee to talk about creativity, you're probably stalling.

• If you go to a conference to hear something you already know, you're stalling.

• If you're "mulling it over" or "weighing my options," admit it: these are stall tactics.

• If you begin a tough conversation with false pleasantries (e.g. "With all due respect..."), you are stalling.

• If you ask for a second opinion or wait for more information, you're most likely delaying the inevitable -- doing something.

• If you often say, "I dunno... what do you wanna do?" you're still stalling. (My wife hates it when I do this.)

• If you're "just checking in" on social media (Twitter, Facebook, etc.), you are stalling.

• If you're taking multiple bathroom breaks in an hour, you're stalling (or you've got an infection).

Stop it

I hate stalling. And I do it all the time. It's time to stop stalling and start creating.

Decide. Make a difference. Act now. We don't need you next week. We need your heart -- your passion, your pathos, your love -- today.

We can't afford to wait. You can't, either. Consider the opportunity cost of stalling. Is it really worth it?

So... what's on your stall list? Share in the comments.